“PAIN”💔

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“Pain is strange. A cat killing a bird, a car accident, a fire…. Pain arrives, 
BANG, and there it is, it sits on you. It’s real. And to anybody watching, you look foolish. 
Like you’ve suddenly become an idiot. 
There’s no cure for it unless you know somebody who understands how you feel, and knows how to help.”
                      
           ~CHARLES BUKOWSKI ( from “WOMEN”)


I can’t help but think how each one of us deals with pain. How each person feels on the inside, how much it hurts…
 I’m not talking about a specific thing, like love or loss. I’m talking about pain. 

Simple as that. 
Some people feel pain all the time, some people don’t, 

but at some point in our lives all of us have felt it.

I’ve come to the conclusion that my pain is not different from your pain…

maybe I feel it because I’ve just lost someone close to me, maybe you feel it because you just got fired or whatever other reasons big or small.

 It doesn’t matter though, cause we’re both in pain and we’re both suffering.


The point of this article is that your pain is not more important than another’s.

 Try to see it as an opportunity to connect with the other person that’s in pain. 
Because only they can understand what it feels like, even if it’s for a completely different reason.

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